This issue came home to me in the following situation. I consider myself a first-rate handy person. (Actually, I think of myself as a handyman, but the other day when my son referred to the "postperson" I realized I would have to change my language.) If things have to be done right (like wallpaper) then of course Margaret, my wife, does them, but rough jobs of plumbing, electrical wiring and carpentry are for me. ...